Boy, this dude here was a whopper

Occupation:  Entertainment Industry

Age:  Early 30s

Looks like:  Common, the rapper

How we met:  A hookup through a mutual friend

To honor our ‘no drama’ policy with these dates, I deleted this guy from my contact list after the first 2 times we attempted to link up the plans fell through.  It took about 4 attempted dates, 3 weeks and 10s of text messages before we actually saw each other face to face.  It was like we were already in a relationship before we even started.  All drama. (strike 1)  By this point, I was totally uninterested, but decided to go along and see what he looked like, and to get a few laughs and to relax.  I enjoy male company.

I arrived at a cute little bar down in SOHO…and he was running about 15 minutes late.

I was neither surprised or disappointed considering his track record.  Overall, the date went ok.

I learned that he’s a chronic weed smoker (strike two).  We chitchatted the whole night, and as he continued to play on his mobile device,…I watched him and smirked to myself.  I found my mind wandering aimlessly as he talked…I thought he sounded a lot wittier and cuter via text message (strike 3).  Compelling conversation and witty jokes can keep me mildly interested.  It doesn’t take much to wrangle me down…

Overall, he seemed like a dude I could put in my friend category.  He seems like he knows how to have a good time, but I’m off the dudes who smoke all of that weed in their 30s.  Its just a sign of immaturity to me.